Do you think I dont respect myself because I want to be someones pet?

I hate working, I havent found anyhting that I really enjoy to do that would make a pay check. So I just want to be like someone's pet... and everyones going to say "then you dont have any respect for yourself" and honestly Im trying to think of if I do or not. I dont let anyone call me names (even jokingly, like call me biznatch) if I feel like someone is putting me down I might not say anyhting at the time, but Ill just not be friends with them. Im pretty conservative in my ual permescuties, people call me a lady, and even if theres another woman around if a guy burps or says a bad word theyll turn to ME and say excuse me (im very good looking). So I dont care lay it into me, what do you think??