Using a log burning fire for the first time tonight..Help!!!?

My boiler has broke!!!!!! While I wait for it to be repaired I am using a log burning fire in my home. However I have never used one before!!! I eventually managed to get it lit (after 3 hours of trying!) but need some advice on getting it lit quicker and what to do with it when I want to go out/to bed, can I leave it alight or extinguish it and how???